3 “Don’ts” for Women in Online Dating

There are some things that women should never do while developing in an online relationship with a man. These things are certain to put a quick and final end to any further communications with him.

1) Too Much Information
While chatting online or by email do not write your full life story with all the gory details. His eyes will glaze over and he will fall out of his chair. Keep it short and sweet until he asks for details…then provide them slowly and only answer the questions he asks. For example, if he asks how many are in your family, he is NOT asking for the details of your interaction with them. He really just wants to know how many you have. Let’s say you have 2 and then you ask how many he has. For every question he asks you, you should ask one of him. Nothing turns a man off like a long-winded woman who just doesn’t know when to shut up or how to listen.

 2) Tell the Truth. Really
Never, ever, EVER lie. I really believe that lies will eventually catch up with you sooner or later. Many women (and men) lie about their age, marital status, employment, height, weight and a host of other things in their online profiles. That is a huge mistake. If you find a man who you are really interested in, he will find out you lied and there goes any possibility of the relationship progressing. So, just be honest. There is someone out there who will like you…even come to love you…for exactly the person you are. If you get caught in the lie, the trust is lost. What if he was the most right for you person you ever met?

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 3) Relax. Not too Fast
Don’t be too eager. It makes you look desperate and it really puts a man off. Men are first and foremost conquerors and if getting the person of their desires to like them too is just too easy, they will quickly lose interest. I don’t mean play “hard-to-get”. I mean, don’t push too hard for a face-to-face meeting. Don’t email them or text them too frequently. Play it safe and play it cool.

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